Salam Reader,

Tomorrow afternoon I’m teaching a workshop at the Islamic Foundation of Toronto, insha’Allah. It’s a workshop that has been in development for nearly four years.

It started on November 12, 2022, when I taught the first version of it and called it Muslim Money Made Simple. About ten people showed up, most of them close friends and family, and I walked in with a few faint ideas about the need to talk about personal finance as Muslims and a handful of barebones slides.

One moment from that afternoon has stayed with me ever since.

I was teaching a standard needs vs. wants framework, the kind you’ll find in any personal finance book, and I labelled something on the screen a “want.” Someone in the room pushed back and said it was a need, and before I could really respond, other people started weighing in on both sides. For a few minutes, the workshop became a debate about a single word.

The words we use for money shape the way we handle it. Need, want, budget. They all carry assumptions we rarely question, and “budget” might be the most misleading of them all.

That’s when I started rethinking budgets.

I don’t actually have a problem with budgets. A budget is just a target, a goal, a number on a page that tells you where you’d like your money to end up. There’s nothing wrong with setting one.

Budgets have picked up a bad reputation, and it’s not really their fault. They’re hard to keep because willpower and guilt aren’t a plan, and the moment life gets a little messy, they tend to collapse under their own weight.

A system is a different thing entirely.

A system is how your money actually moves: how it comes in, where it separates, what gets invested, what gets given away. It’s the means, not the target. You set it up once, with intention, and from there it mostly runs itself, asking for a little maintenance now and then instead of constant policing.

A budget is where you want to go. A system is how you get there.

That idea has shaped a lot of what I’ve built since.

Tomorrow, we get to revisit it.

If you’re in Toronto tomorrow, come through. It’s free, but seats are limited and only a few are left.

May Allah make it beneficial, and may He accept from all of us.

Wasalam,